Friend joins spirit world in Aug communicates through dreams
Dec 23, 2017 12:33:48 GMT 10
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Post by Deleted on Dec 23, 2017 12:33:48 GMT 10
My wonderful friend from Germany, who I met on a forum 11 years ago passed away from cancer in August.
Since she died, I closed my small forum down for posting, leaving it in maintenance mode. She was a constant in my life & on the forum, her posts always there and messages always regularly coming through. I go there now to reminisce her words, which I will always have as memories.
She was there for me more than anyone and we were each others biggest support systems over the years. She was there more than my local friends and my own family and knew more about me than all of them. We had a beautiful friendship.
My friend was on hospice all summer after a brief battle with cancer, and I was with her all the way through her final days and weeks. We messaged on the forum and talked on what's app (A free nationwide calling app) until 4 days before she died. She posted on my forum up until 4 days before she died, didn't stop posting until she began to physically die.
During her the end stage if her illness, she adamantly told me that angels can stay friends too and that she would find a way to stay with me in spirit after passing on.
I used to take walks or drives when things were bothering me and my friend was always a phone call away. She never neglected to pick up her phone or answer a message and, through the years I knew her, made a point to check on me and to stay in touch for our friendship. It has been a great loss since her departure from this physical world.
I dreamed about her about a month or so after she died. In the dream I asked her how I'm not suppose to be totally devastated over this. She replied, "Don't be devastated, just reminisce." I asked her how I do that and she just nudged forward toward a shoe box without saying a word.
It took me a couple days to figure out what I could do with a shoe box & even a couple more months to find the time to sit down and do this, but when I did, I made the most beautiful memory box with multiple printed up messages of ours through the years and decorated it with her favorite prayers, quotes and colors. It doesnt look like a shoe box at all. It's s beautiful memorial box.
Although the memory box was heatwrencing and rather emotionally difficult, it seemed to help heal my grief a bit and bring me some peace in the joy that friendship brought my life...I sent a photo of it to my friend's son and he loved it and it brought him some peace too.
I got in touch with another friend from my forum last week to see how she was, and she has been less than supportive over the death of my close friend and kind of slighted me for taking a break from our forum and putting it in maintenance mode. No regard that people mean more than websites and just has given me an attitude these last few months, since my friend's death.
I then ironically dreamed about my departed friend that night. She said, "Whoever isn't being supportive to you now isn't worth anymore of your time."
I just wanted to share my story about how I met my best friend in the world, who was there for me more than any other soul, on a forum at random in 2006. We did forums together this whole time. She lived as far away from me as anyone possibly could but was in my daily regular life and here for me more than any next door neighbor, local friend or family member ever could be. She was unique, quirky and thoughtful beyond belief. We had great times and stayed friends for the rest of her life. And for the rest of mine I will miss my friend. But my friend told me before she died that angels can stay friends too & I believe has since reached me in 2 dreams from the other side. One dream guided me to a memorial activity that helped heal me.
Since she died, I closed my small forum down for posting, leaving it in maintenance mode. She was a constant in my life & on the forum, her posts always there and messages always regularly coming through. I go there now to reminisce her words, which I will always have as memories.
She was there for me more than anyone and we were each others biggest support systems over the years. She was there more than my local friends and my own family and knew more about me than all of them. We had a beautiful friendship.
My friend was on hospice all summer after a brief battle with cancer, and I was with her all the way through her final days and weeks. We messaged on the forum and talked on what's app (A free nationwide calling app) until 4 days before she died. She posted on my forum up until 4 days before she died, didn't stop posting until she began to physically die.
During her the end stage if her illness, she adamantly told me that angels can stay friends too and that she would find a way to stay with me in spirit after passing on.
I used to take walks or drives when things were bothering me and my friend was always a phone call away. She never neglected to pick up her phone or answer a message and, through the years I knew her, made a point to check on me and to stay in touch for our friendship. It has been a great loss since her departure from this physical world.
I dreamed about her about a month or so after she died. In the dream I asked her how I'm not suppose to be totally devastated over this. She replied, "Don't be devastated, just reminisce." I asked her how I do that and she just nudged forward toward a shoe box without saying a word.
It took me a couple days to figure out what I could do with a shoe box & even a couple more months to find the time to sit down and do this, but when I did, I made the most beautiful memory box with multiple printed up messages of ours through the years and decorated it with her favorite prayers, quotes and colors. It doesnt look like a shoe box at all. It's s beautiful memorial box.
Although the memory box was heatwrencing and rather emotionally difficult, it seemed to help heal my grief a bit and bring me some peace in the joy that friendship brought my life...I sent a photo of it to my friend's son and he loved it and it brought him some peace too.
I got in touch with another friend from my forum last week to see how she was, and she has been less than supportive over the death of my close friend and kind of slighted me for taking a break from our forum and putting it in maintenance mode. No regard that people mean more than websites and just has given me an attitude these last few months, since my friend's death.
I then ironically dreamed about my departed friend that night. She said, "Whoever isn't being supportive to you now isn't worth anymore of your time."
I just wanted to share my story about how I met my best friend in the world, who was there for me more than any other soul, on a forum at random in 2006. We did forums together this whole time. She lived as far away from me as anyone possibly could but was in my daily regular life and here for me more than any next door neighbor, local friend or family member ever could be. She was unique, quirky and thoughtful beyond belief. We had great times and stayed friends for the rest of her life. And for the rest of mine I will miss my friend. But my friend told me before she died that angels can stay friends too & I believe has since reached me in 2 dreams from the other side. One dream guided me to a memorial activity that helped heal me.