Women's Way to do their Healing?
Aug 20, 2017 21:20:28 GMT 10
Post by James on Aug 20, 2017 21:20:28 GMT 10
This came to me today as a result of speaking with Helen a Celestial spirit over the past couple of days. It's as I felt and understood it, however it waits to be seen if it's true.
OH MY GOD!!!
John, where are you - did you hear my scream of anguish all they way out there in the depths of the gorge???!!! Quick, break out the BEER FRIGDE, I need a cold one, I’m going on the grog, it’s TOO much, I can’t take it anymore. CRUSHED again, it’s not a good day for us men, we are far more stuffed than we understand, and the eye-opening stark revelation of the horror of it that struck this morning has well and truly done me in. And what’s worse, I think I’m right in all I’m feeling, I wish I didn’t think I was right, I daren’t ask Helen to confirm because I know what she’s going to say, as I can now see she was subtly setting me up yesterday in how she presented what we wrote together so I could see what I’ve seen this morning. And it goes like this, and I’m sure there will be more to follow:
We men CAN’T actually do our Healing by ourselves, we need the help of a woman/women. That’s the male ego-crushing statement of all time, that is a game-changer as the American’s love saying, that means major adjustments to all I’ve written, which luckily is just adding on to the revelation and not actually requiring me to go back and rewrite great chunks of it - BIG SIGH OF RELIEF, I can tell you! And that’s the same for both us, you won’t have to alter your Pascas Papers either... just write another one - it’s endless!
So what if it’s true, that is a huge thing, it means men can’t just get on with doing their Healing by themselves, they have to do it with women’s help, which means, they will do it by default; and so much of it adds up, it makes sense - and it’s how it’s been for me. However just because it’s like this for me, might not necessarily mean it’s like that for all men, however I have a feeling that it more than likely will be. And so far the evidence is very slim, only a couple of men have come to the forum and shown they’ve not been able to do their Healing themselves, not like how Sam and a couple of other women who don’t actively participate on the forum are doing. And why was Helen going on so much about it being women who’ll be leading the way, women, women, a woman’s thing the Healing - if you go with what she was saying; and yet what about we men, where do we fit in? And we come up in passing, as an aside: oh yes, men too will be able to do their Healing, but what she didn’t say outright was: ONLY IF WE GET HELP FROM WOMEN. And if we don’t, then forget it, we’re stuffed for evermore.
So that will mean, the supposedly 144,000 who do their Healing will definitely be women (and Ha to all those religious prophecy people who believe the Chosen Ones will be men - what a turn up for the books!), that women will lead the way in getting humanity out of the Rebellion and Default, because they are the ONLY one’s who can actually, truly, do their Healing, with we men having to do it by default, being helped along like lame ducks by our women partners or friends or Celestials. So, no women doing their Healing, then no end to the Rebellion and Default, even if technically it has ended.
So the Healing really is a Woman’s Thing, and so wow, and that explains why I’ve never been able to do it like Marion and Samantha do, taking it on myself, being in full command of it, and no longer needing their help. I did think, I HOPED, that it was just part of my fuckedness that made it that I couldn’t do it, whilst thinking other men at least will be able to do it themselves, and that I’m just the pathetic one who always needs Marion pointing out things about me, helping me to see things, encouraging me to go with my feelings, showing me what my feelings are and where I’m not honouring them, and all the rest of the hundreds of things she does for me which I can’t do for myself. But what if all men will be as I am in their Healing, needing so much help from women, even unable to do it by themselves like women can? Which is admittedly also assuming all women will be able to do it for themselves once they get the hang of it. And it changes everything, a major shift in my vision; and wow, so really we men are out of the picture in a way, at best only being able to support women doing their Healing, so they will support and help us. But not able to do it ourselves, thereby not able to once again cut women out of the picture; no, we men being dependent on women for help to do our Healing, can’t ever get away with shitting all over them and keeping them repressed and shut out ever again.
It all makes perfect sense, which is the problem. Adam shat on Eve, although they were both in it together, both causing their default, yet Adam went off defending Eden when he should have stayed with Eve right to their death if that was what was to happen. He should have insisted on being by her side protecting her all the way along and not from a distance, leaving her alone and vulnerable, so she defaulted. And then Adam once he learnt of Eve’s transgression (This all coming from The Urantia Book’s story of Adam and Eve, which I love and think is true, although it doesn’t say all) went off transgressing himself, and so joining Eve in default, but from then on with men remaining the superior ones, dumping on women because it’s women who always cause all the dam problems - like the Default. So never forgive them, never let them have their say, keep them away from their true feelings, stop them growing in truth, and making them believe they are only good for serving their great man.
And now reverse all of that, that being what our Healing is. So now the great man Adam, has to eat humble-pie realising that as Eve got them technically into the mess, so women representing Eve, have to get them out of it. So women are the ones to do their Healing, with men joining them, going along with them, as Adam joined Eve; but unlike Adam then taking over and all men forevermore shitting on women; no, men can’t take over the doing of the Healing, they are stuck in not being able to do it because they are not as close and true to their feelings as women are, so they HAVE to rely on the graciousness of women, and women’s tolerance, compassion and endless patience, for help. For women can say, na, fuck you, we’ve had enough of you men; but then they are stuffed because it’s not much fun having finished your Healing yet you can’t be with your soulmate because you told him to fuck off, not wanting to know about men ever again. So women will help men, they have to, but ONLY with men knowing their place; that being: that women ARE the true spiritual leaders, ARE able to live true to their feelings, and need to be recognised as such, appreciated for being so amazing in that capacity, and so supported and put first, something the man finds hard to do because of all his rebellious programming about being the superior dominant one.
And even though most men know women have far more power than they do, still they secretly believe they are more powerful than women, and so will suffer humiliation when they realise they can’t screw the woman over anymore, they can’t even screw her if she says no, because they desperately need her help to help them do their Healing. And so for men, the humbling truth: If you want to ever Heal yourself of your wrongness, well you’re going to have to fully honour women, you’re going to have to ASK THEM FOR HELP. Oh the horror of it, to actually beg the woman to help you look to your feelings, to help you break through the controlling patterns of your mind, putting yourself down and elevating women above you, because women innately know the Way of their Feelings, whereas we men - don’t.
So if that is all true, well the good news my fellow men, brothers, compatriots, is, we’re well and truly stuffed so far as believing we’ll ever be able to be at-one with God, ascend to Paradise, Heal all our wrongness, evil, sins and errors, WITHOUT the help from women. So we can soak up the Divine Love endlessly, we can pretend we are the great Pope, Arch Bishop, Guru, Yogis, Enlightened One, Priest, Spiritual Teacher, Spiritual or Religious Leader, we can even look at our beloved leader of Nebadon - Jesus, the greatest man of all men, and still, none of them, none of us, not even Jesus, can lead the true way through feelings, because: WE’RE NOT WOMEN.
So that once again puts a huge LIGHT on Mary Magdalene, and which adds more weight to why the Evil Women Spirit instigators of the Rebellion and Default, kept all women down, making Mary comply with the tenets of the Rebellion and Default so she couldn’t come up and have her say; because had she, then the whole Rebellion would have had to end there and then, and not carry on as it has over these past two thousands corrupting the man - Jesus’ words, into the Christian religions. Had Mary’s words been allowed to be spoken, then things would have been very different. However she in keeping with the Rebellion and Default, as did Jesus, their honouring it and not going outwardly against it, knowing it was to kill itself in due course anyway, kept quite, allowing men to carry on vaingloriously in their deluded selfish oblivious suppression of women and the feminine - his own true feelings - in himself.
So to Samantha and every other woman who does her Healing, we men, need your help. Can you hear the small pleading sound in my voice, I’m sorry it’s only very small like Piglet at present, this is a huge thing for me being a man, to have to admit that I am wrong and don’t have a clue after all, when all the way along I’ve believed that I knew everything; please will you help us poorly deluded and greatly misguided men with our Healing? Please Marion will you keep helping me, even though I treat you like you don’t exist, I shit all over you being the dominant, controlling, superior man; I don’t respect your sensitivities and feelings, I treat you like you’re stupid and don’t know anything, because what do feelings know, they are all over the place, too emotional, too irrational to be considered of any importance and to be taken any notice of. Please will you help me understand how to live true myself so I can heal myself of my wrong ways, so I can learn how to be truly self-expressive, so I can become eventually, one day, truly loving, so I will then hopefully be able to truly, love you. Please?
So women, having been treated like shit by men all these years, given the thankless task of rearing the children without any help and so little real feeling and emotional support, then being blamed for fucking everything and everyone up, are now having to find even more inner strength and turn around and not only be able to cope with all the pain and intensity of doing their own Healing, and how difficult that will be, but also having to help, drag, coerce, cajole, yell at, make, force, beg, hope, their man to do his Healing, all so they can at least have someone to talk to, someone to express their feelings to, even if he’s such a dope it takes him eternity to understand just what they fuck they are talking about.
So is it that a woman’s burden is about to get even greater, to not only have to suffer all the torment of being under the man, even literally when he’s forcing himself on her when she doesn’t want to do it because her feelings are saying no and she can’t really explain why, but to have to also help the Great Dick to help himself by doing his Healing? Oh god, can it get any worse, can it get any harder for both of us, because as much as we men are a pain in the arse for you women, we are such the poor ones, even though we don’t know it, or might know it but refuse to admit it; we being still the little boys our mother’s fucked up along with our father’s by making us into the controlling studs we believe we are; when we’re not, we don’t know, we don’t have a bloody clue.
Marion just knows it all, is constantly focused on herself and her feelings, she doesn’t need anyone else other than me by default because at least she can speak to me and I will help her with material things. And I don’t directly contribute to her growing in truth, I rarely give her something to think about along spiritual lines, she’s usually miles ahead of me, she doesn’t need to speak with all the spirits and God and everyone else to understand, she just keeps moving with her feelings, and really if I’m there, great, if not, surely some other man would suffice, all so long as he continued to allow her to express herself and didn’t tell her to shut up.
Whereas, I constantly need her help, I don’t have a clue, none of the feeling stuff comes naturally to me, and often she has to go over and over it again and again before I get it, something that she and all other women just know and has been obvious all their lives. And I need to keep writing it all down as part of helping me understand it all, moving it out into the mind areas working it all through, just like writing all this now, having to speak with the women spirits, with Mary M, with the Mother, with all the women who can help me.
So I think, if Marion croaked it before I finish my Healing, I’d have to find another woman to replace her so I could keep going with my Healing. I am a bit better at doing it myself, however I know I’d miss a lot of the subtleties that Marion picks up on in a flash, as I’m simply not aware of them in myself, they being all so much part of my unloving pattern.
So I’m the first one to agree with Marion when she says she doesn’t think I’m actually doing my Healing so much as just waking up to all my problems, those which she easily sees, but which I have no clue about. And then, as to when will I ever actually do my Healing as she says I will need to do - like she does, I don’t know. However I now wonder if what she says is in fact so; or, am I just doing it my way, it being different to her, and possibly: the ‘man’s way’. Which we won’t know until other men try to do their Healing, showing they can either do it like women can, so all I am writing is unfounded and I will amend it; or, show that, yes, they too will need the help of women in some way, or all the way long, so as to complete it.
James: So Helen, what do you think about all I’ve said?
Helen: Spot on James.
James: That’s it, that’s all you’re going to say - it’s a major insight!
Helen: What more needs to be said, I think you’ve covered it quite well. And as you say, there will be more for you to understand, which will come to you - you don’t want me denying you that enjoyment, do you? And we all have to wait and see what happens when men show up wanting to do their Healing.
James: Well one thing I’ve realised, I can’t actually help women (or men for that matter) do their Healing, they’d probably think I was a bit thick, having already cottoned on. Which I’m happy about, as I don’t want to actually get involved with people trying to help them do it in a hands-on, in the feeling-moment, way.
And if I look at myself as one way of doing our Healing, and Marion the other, so is there a Woman’s Way, and a Man’s Way? And will men feel rejected and pissed off not being able to so easily do it by themselves, and having to be dependent on a woman, just like how it was with their mothers, as I have? But then again, it does bring you much closer into your relationship, showing up all the non-attentive, non-feeling intimate areas of it within yourself, which does greatly help your relationship if it hangs together, and I do feel infinitely better about myself and understanding how I am; and, believe it or not, even about being the unloving shit I am with Marion.
And what about men spirits in the Divine Love Healing mansion worlds, do they all receive help from fellow Healing women spirits or you higher Celestials?
Helen: Yes, they do, all of them. Not one man has done his Healing as Marion or Samantha are doing theirs.
James: Okay, so you don’t have to say anymore.
Helen: No.
James: Ah good, but first, it just occurred to me, how did it feel knowing you really were doing something we men couldn’t do. That we simply have no feeling for it, so no intuitive idea about it, that it is exclusively a woman’s club?
Helen: Very, very - extremely good, you’ve no idea how good. To understand God did not forsake us women, He (They) gave us more than just being child-bearers and a vehicle for men to satisfy their desires with. And the empowerment we feel, feeling needed and important, and knowing that nothing good will ever happen for humanity whilst it remains in its evilness unless we women, spirits and women on Earth, do our Healing. And we hold the future of humanity in our feelings, the truth, and the whole truth that all those stupid men say they’ve been looking for but which they’ve never found because they’ve never given us women any credit for knowing anything, let alone showing them the way to access their own truth through their very own feelings.
James: So if you didn’t need or want to be with your soulmate, many women no doubt would be very happy to give men the flick completely and say, fuck you, we’re not helping you with your Healing - ha, ha, it’s payback time?
Helen: Yes. I being one such woman as that. However you soon come to understand - through your Healing, that unfortunately, you can’t do it all without men, you do need them in some way, and that way grows larger the closer you come to the end of your Healing, for you do start to yearn and long to be with your soulmate, and there are NO soulmates who are same-sex. So we do need each other, and that turns out to be a wonderful thing by the time you finish your Healing, you are more than happy, thrilled to bits to be with your other half - a man. And when you are both fully and freely expressing yourselves to each other, then you understand that it all works perfectly, the relationship between the sexes is perfect and you wouldn’t have it any other way.
OH MY GOD!!!
John, where are you - did you hear my scream of anguish all they way out there in the depths of the gorge???!!! Quick, break out the BEER FRIGDE, I need a cold one, I’m going on the grog, it’s TOO much, I can’t take it anymore. CRUSHED again, it’s not a good day for us men, we are far more stuffed than we understand, and the eye-opening stark revelation of the horror of it that struck this morning has well and truly done me in. And what’s worse, I think I’m right in all I’m feeling, I wish I didn’t think I was right, I daren’t ask Helen to confirm because I know what she’s going to say, as I can now see she was subtly setting me up yesterday in how she presented what we wrote together so I could see what I’ve seen this morning. And it goes like this, and I’m sure there will be more to follow:
We men CAN’T actually do our Healing by ourselves, we need the help of a woman/women. That’s the male ego-crushing statement of all time, that is a game-changer as the American’s love saying, that means major adjustments to all I’ve written, which luckily is just adding on to the revelation and not actually requiring me to go back and rewrite great chunks of it - BIG SIGH OF RELIEF, I can tell you! And that’s the same for both us, you won’t have to alter your Pascas Papers either... just write another one - it’s endless!
So what if it’s true, that is a huge thing, it means men can’t just get on with doing their Healing by themselves, they have to do it with women’s help, which means, they will do it by default; and so much of it adds up, it makes sense - and it’s how it’s been for me. However just because it’s like this for me, might not necessarily mean it’s like that for all men, however I have a feeling that it more than likely will be. And so far the evidence is very slim, only a couple of men have come to the forum and shown they’ve not been able to do their Healing themselves, not like how Sam and a couple of other women who don’t actively participate on the forum are doing. And why was Helen going on so much about it being women who’ll be leading the way, women, women, a woman’s thing the Healing - if you go with what she was saying; and yet what about we men, where do we fit in? And we come up in passing, as an aside: oh yes, men too will be able to do their Healing, but what she didn’t say outright was: ONLY IF WE GET HELP FROM WOMEN. And if we don’t, then forget it, we’re stuffed for evermore.
So that will mean, the supposedly 144,000 who do their Healing will definitely be women (and Ha to all those religious prophecy people who believe the Chosen Ones will be men - what a turn up for the books!), that women will lead the way in getting humanity out of the Rebellion and Default, because they are the ONLY one’s who can actually, truly, do their Healing, with we men having to do it by default, being helped along like lame ducks by our women partners or friends or Celestials. So, no women doing their Healing, then no end to the Rebellion and Default, even if technically it has ended.
So the Healing really is a Woman’s Thing, and so wow, and that explains why I’ve never been able to do it like Marion and Samantha do, taking it on myself, being in full command of it, and no longer needing their help. I did think, I HOPED, that it was just part of my fuckedness that made it that I couldn’t do it, whilst thinking other men at least will be able to do it themselves, and that I’m just the pathetic one who always needs Marion pointing out things about me, helping me to see things, encouraging me to go with my feelings, showing me what my feelings are and where I’m not honouring them, and all the rest of the hundreds of things she does for me which I can’t do for myself. But what if all men will be as I am in their Healing, needing so much help from women, even unable to do it by themselves like women can? Which is admittedly also assuming all women will be able to do it for themselves once they get the hang of it. And it changes everything, a major shift in my vision; and wow, so really we men are out of the picture in a way, at best only being able to support women doing their Healing, so they will support and help us. But not able to do it ourselves, thereby not able to once again cut women out of the picture; no, we men being dependent on women for help to do our Healing, can’t ever get away with shitting all over them and keeping them repressed and shut out ever again.
It all makes perfect sense, which is the problem. Adam shat on Eve, although they were both in it together, both causing their default, yet Adam went off defending Eden when he should have stayed with Eve right to their death if that was what was to happen. He should have insisted on being by her side protecting her all the way along and not from a distance, leaving her alone and vulnerable, so she defaulted. And then Adam once he learnt of Eve’s transgression (This all coming from The Urantia Book’s story of Adam and Eve, which I love and think is true, although it doesn’t say all) went off transgressing himself, and so joining Eve in default, but from then on with men remaining the superior ones, dumping on women because it’s women who always cause all the dam problems - like the Default. So never forgive them, never let them have their say, keep them away from their true feelings, stop them growing in truth, and making them believe they are only good for serving their great man.
And now reverse all of that, that being what our Healing is. So now the great man Adam, has to eat humble-pie realising that as Eve got them technically into the mess, so women representing Eve, have to get them out of it. So women are the ones to do their Healing, with men joining them, going along with them, as Adam joined Eve; but unlike Adam then taking over and all men forevermore shitting on women; no, men can’t take over the doing of the Healing, they are stuck in not being able to do it because they are not as close and true to their feelings as women are, so they HAVE to rely on the graciousness of women, and women’s tolerance, compassion and endless patience, for help. For women can say, na, fuck you, we’ve had enough of you men; but then they are stuffed because it’s not much fun having finished your Healing yet you can’t be with your soulmate because you told him to fuck off, not wanting to know about men ever again. So women will help men, they have to, but ONLY with men knowing their place; that being: that women ARE the true spiritual leaders, ARE able to live true to their feelings, and need to be recognised as such, appreciated for being so amazing in that capacity, and so supported and put first, something the man finds hard to do because of all his rebellious programming about being the superior dominant one.
And even though most men know women have far more power than they do, still they secretly believe they are more powerful than women, and so will suffer humiliation when they realise they can’t screw the woman over anymore, they can’t even screw her if she says no, because they desperately need her help to help them do their Healing. And so for men, the humbling truth: If you want to ever Heal yourself of your wrongness, well you’re going to have to fully honour women, you’re going to have to ASK THEM FOR HELP. Oh the horror of it, to actually beg the woman to help you look to your feelings, to help you break through the controlling patterns of your mind, putting yourself down and elevating women above you, because women innately know the Way of their Feelings, whereas we men - don’t.
So if that is all true, well the good news my fellow men, brothers, compatriots, is, we’re well and truly stuffed so far as believing we’ll ever be able to be at-one with God, ascend to Paradise, Heal all our wrongness, evil, sins and errors, WITHOUT the help from women. So we can soak up the Divine Love endlessly, we can pretend we are the great Pope, Arch Bishop, Guru, Yogis, Enlightened One, Priest, Spiritual Teacher, Spiritual or Religious Leader, we can even look at our beloved leader of Nebadon - Jesus, the greatest man of all men, and still, none of them, none of us, not even Jesus, can lead the true way through feelings, because: WE’RE NOT WOMEN.
So that once again puts a huge LIGHT on Mary Magdalene, and which adds more weight to why the Evil Women Spirit instigators of the Rebellion and Default, kept all women down, making Mary comply with the tenets of the Rebellion and Default so she couldn’t come up and have her say; because had she, then the whole Rebellion would have had to end there and then, and not carry on as it has over these past two thousands corrupting the man - Jesus’ words, into the Christian religions. Had Mary’s words been allowed to be spoken, then things would have been very different. However she in keeping with the Rebellion and Default, as did Jesus, their honouring it and not going outwardly against it, knowing it was to kill itself in due course anyway, kept quite, allowing men to carry on vaingloriously in their deluded selfish oblivious suppression of women and the feminine - his own true feelings - in himself.
So to Samantha and every other woman who does her Healing, we men, need your help. Can you hear the small pleading sound in my voice, I’m sorry it’s only very small like Piglet at present, this is a huge thing for me being a man, to have to admit that I am wrong and don’t have a clue after all, when all the way along I’ve believed that I knew everything; please will you help us poorly deluded and greatly misguided men with our Healing? Please Marion will you keep helping me, even though I treat you like you don’t exist, I shit all over you being the dominant, controlling, superior man; I don’t respect your sensitivities and feelings, I treat you like you’re stupid and don’t know anything, because what do feelings know, they are all over the place, too emotional, too irrational to be considered of any importance and to be taken any notice of. Please will you help me understand how to live true myself so I can heal myself of my wrong ways, so I can learn how to be truly self-expressive, so I can become eventually, one day, truly loving, so I will then hopefully be able to truly, love you. Please?
So women, having been treated like shit by men all these years, given the thankless task of rearing the children without any help and so little real feeling and emotional support, then being blamed for fucking everything and everyone up, are now having to find even more inner strength and turn around and not only be able to cope with all the pain and intensity of doing their own Healing, and how difficult that will be, but also having to help, drag, coerce, cajole, yell at, make, force, beg, hope, their man to do his Healing, all so they can at least have someone to talk to, someone to express their feelings to, even if he’s such a dope it takes him eternity to understand just what they fuck they are talking about.
So is it that a woman’s burden is about to get even greater, to not only have to suffer all the torment of being under the man, even literally when he’s forcing himself on her when she doesn’t want to do it because her feelings are saying no and she can’t really explain why, but to have to also help the Great Dick to help himself by doing his Healing? Oh god, can it get any worse, can it get any harder for both of us, because as much as we men are a pain in the arse for you women, we are such the poor ones, even though we don’t know it, or might know it but refuse to admit it; we being still the little boys our mother’s fucked up along with our father’s by making us into the controlling studs we believe we are; when we’re not, we don’t know, we don’t have a bloody clue.
Marion just knows it all, is constantly focused on herself and her feelings, she doesn’t need anyone else other than me by default because at least she can speak to me and I will help her with material things. And I don’t directly contribute to her growing in truth, I rarely give her something to think about along spiritual lines, she’s usually miles ahead of me, she doesn’t need to speak with all the spirits and God and everyone else to understand, she just keeps moving with her feelings, and really if I’m there, great, if not, surely some other man would suffice, all so long as he continued to allow her to express herself and didn’t tell her to shut up.
Whereas, I constantly need her help, I don’t have a clue, none of the feeling stuff comes naturally to me, and often she has to go over and over it again and again before I get it, something that she and all other women just know and has been obvious all their lives. And I need to keep writing it all down as part of helping me understand it all, moving it out into the mind areas working it all through, just like writing all this now, having to speak with the women spirits, with Mary M, with the Mother, with all the women who can help me.
So I think, if Marion croaked it before I finish my Healing, I’d have to find another woman to replace her so I could keep going with my Healing. I am a bit better at doing it myself, however I know I’d miss a lot of the subtleties that Marion picks up on in a flash, as I’m simply not aware of them in myself, they being all so much part of my unloving pattern.
So I’m the first one to agree with Marion when she says she doesn’t think I’m actually doing my Healing so much as just waking up to all my problems, those which she easily sees, but which I have no clue about. And then, as to when will I ever actually do my Healing as she says I will need to do - like she does, I don’t know. However I now wonder if what she says is in fact so; or, am I just doing it my way, it being different to her, and possibly: the ‘man’s way’. Which we won’t know until other men try to do their Healing, showing they can either do it like women can, so all I am writing is unfounded and I will amend it; or, show that, yes, they too will need the help of women in some way, or all the way long, so as to complete it.
James: So Helen, what do you think about all I’ve said?
Helen: Spot on James.
James: That’s it, that’s all you’re going to say - it’s a major insight!
Helen: What more needs to be said, I think you’ve covered it quite well. And as you say, there will be more for you to understand, which will come to you - you don’t want me denying you that enjoyment, do you? And we all have to wait and see what happens when men show up wanting to do their Healing.
James: Well one thing I’ve realised, I can’t actually help women (or men for that matter) do their Healing, they’d probably think I was a bit thick, having already cottoned on. Which I’m happy about, as I don’t want to actually get involved with people trying to help them do it in a hands-on, in the feeling-moment, way.
And if I look at myself as one way of doing our Healing, and Marion the other, so is there a Woman’s Way, and a Man’s Way? And will men feel rejected and pissed off not being able to so easily do it by themselves, and having to be dependent on a woman, just like how it was with their mothers, as I have? But then again, it does bring you much closer into your relationship, showing up all the non-attentive, non-feeling intimate areas of it within yourself, which does greatly help your relationship if it hangs together, and I do feel infinitely better about myself and understanding how I am; and, believe it or not, even about being the unloving shit I am with Marion.
And what about men spirits in the Divine Love Healing mansion worlds, do they all receive help from fellow Healing women spirits or you higher Celestials?
Helen: Yes, they do, all of them. Not one man has done his Healing as Marion or Samantha are doing theirs.
James: Okay, so you don’t have to say anymore.
Helen: No.
James: Ah good, but first, it just occurred to me, how did it feel knowing you really were doing something we men couldn’t do. That we simply have no feeling for it, so no intuitive idea about it, that it is exclusively a woman’s club?
Helen: Very, very - extremely good, you’ve no idea how good. To understand God did not forsake us women, He (They) gave us more than just being child-bearers and a vehicle for men to satisfy their desires with. And the empowerment we feel, feeling needed and important, and knowing that nothing good will ever happen for humanity whilst it remains in its evilness unless we women, spirits and women on Earth, do our Healing. And we hold the future of humanity in our feelings, the truth, and the whole truth that all those stupid men say they’ve been looking for but which they’ve never found because they’ve never given us women any credit for knowing anything, let alone showing them the way to access their own truth through their very own feelings.
James: So if you didn’t need or want to be with your soulmate, many women no doubt would be very happy to give men the flick completely and say, fuck you, we’re not helping you with your Healing - ha, ha, it’s payback time?
Helen: Yes. I being one such woman as that. However you soon come to understand - through your Healing, that unfortunately, you can’t do it all without men, you do need them in some way, and that way grows larger the closer you come to the end of your Healing, for you do start to yearn and long to be with your soulmate, and there are NO soulmates who are same-sex. So we do need each other, and that turns out to be a wonderful thing by the time you finish your Healing, you are more than happy, thrilled to bits to be with your other half - a man. And when you are both fully and freely expressing yourselves to each other, then you understand that it all works perfectly, the relationship between the sexes is perfect and you wouldn’t have it any other way.